November 05, 2016

Sitting pretty: The definition of beauty

NOV 05, 2016

I hate my couch. Yes, yes, I'm grateful I have one and I'm grateful for the roof over top of it, but if I'm being honest; it's ugly and I want a new one. A fancy one. A beautiful one so that the biggest thing in the room actually coordinates with everything else. It'll say,

"Yes, you're a grown up. You have a nice couch. You can go home now."

Growing up, I had a beautiful couch, beautiful furniture in general. Some of it was inherited but most of it was purchased by my mom who had an eye for pretty things. I also wore very nice clothes while sitting on that jazzy couch from the fancy shop. Oddly, I didn't care about having a nice couch at the time. You'd think it would have been a life long obsession the way I go on about it today. My school friends commented on how nice my "stuff" was but, sitting in it, living with the beautiful stuff, the novelty wore thin like a slip cover; its removal would expose the real story.


In our house, debt was a "hidden in plain sight" symbol of beauty. The only thing that we owned out right was the anxiety that brought us the pretty things before we could actually afford them.

Debt had many names: Holt Renfrew card, Bay card, Visa card, Eaton's card, Birks card, Sears card, and Mastercard. It was room after room of deception from our front door to the expensive soap in the bathroom. The trickiest part about managing the perception of beauty, as a child, was trying to explain why I couldn't afford to do things or go places when my outfit cost more than my friends' television sets.

Don't get me wrong - I wasn't deprived. I was provided for, handsomely, with the best of intentions every day of my life, but every corner of our beautiful apartment was filled with financial anxiety that I think we all could have done without.

Now I realise that some of you reading this are parents, and I put a lot of responsibility on my mom's shoulders when I talk about money. It's a long and complicated relationship that was/is wrapped up in a straight jacket of financial panic. She DID DO the best that she could, and today, so do I.

I could have gone either way: I could have ended up being a spender, too. Fortunately, some part of me knew that paying cash left no burden, quantity was overrated, and quality was king.

In this moment, I HAVE the means to buy a new couch, a beautiful one, with cash or credit. I could do it today - I could stop typing for 7 minutes and tell the mid-century modern collector where to deliver that one of a kind, newly reupholstered Norwegian "sitting machine." It would be beautiful. I'd Tweet out a photo and Toronto Life would say,

"Hey, you have the most amazing couch we've ever seen. We need to feature your great style on page 36 of next month's edition."

My couch and I (because I would buy new clothes to wear for the photo shoot and they would be equally as beautiful and stylish) would be famous for 9 seconds. It would be awesome. And most importantly, I'd have what I bloody well wanted.

*Cue my practical side (of which I have in abundance)
to remind me and my guests:

"Don't touch the couch, it's not paid for."

Guests always feel at ease when you tell them not to sit on the furniture, by the way. We would then all laugh, thinking it was so funny that I finally had this beautiful couch that wasn't, as I'd hoped, making me happy at all.

I would rope it off until I knew that the credit card was at zero, or my emergency fund was full again because...wait for it... it wasn't REALLY mine; it was the credit card's. It was the emergency that would happen the next week that a couch couldn't solve, and I REALLY might have needed the cash that I gave to the dude with the Mid-C-Modern treasure whose email address no longer works. It would be the slip cover of my youth all over again, hiding the ugly truth behind page 36 of a trendy magazine.

Beauty: it's awesome. I highly recommend that you pursue all things beautiful in this world, surround yourself with it, especially if it is an extension of how you share your home with friends and family. But I also recommend that beauty not come before your peace of mind.

If you can't pay it off, then it shouldn't be bought.

*goes to hug ugly old couch*
*calls roofer instead*

Thanks for reading!

October 11, 2016

What a difference a day makes

OCT 11, 2016

This Saturday I met some potential artist clients in a cozy coffee shop on the east end. They were smart, funny, talented, and wisely preparing for their future. Their awesomeness, however, isn’t the point of today’s blog; it’s the TIMING of this coffee date that established a plot twist as soon as we said, hello.


Monday, October 3rd, 2016
(blissfully ignorant at a cabin without internet that morning #timing) was the day that the Government of Canada announced sweeping changes to their mortgage lending requirements. I’ve been relatively quiet about it up to this point, waiting for updates from my brokerage who are, in turn, waiting for the unusually silent lenders to react to how the new rules will affect them directly.

It’s still premature to give my final word on the situation, but I do think it’s time to start acclimatising to inevitable, albeit drastic, changes.
Leave panic at the door, move forward, and follow the rules like they have been there all along.

Easy, right?


Without going into too many of the
gory details - and there are a LOT - HOW you qualify and WHO will accept your qualifications (insert the lender here) rest in newly altered positions of power.

BEFORE MONDAY, I would have sorted out your numbers, established your maximum qualifying budget, and THEN investigated which lender would serve you best in your situation. There are always hiccups, but, the basic qualifying info remained relatively the same, regardless of the lender.

AFTER MONDAY, the BIG BANKS and the smaller MONO-LENDERS (who I prefer, actually) will not be following the same rules so, neither will your file. Automatically, the WHO (the lender) in your life will play an even bigger part in your qualifying process than ever before.

In short: some lenders will be allowed to qualify you at a lower contract rate (ie: 2.44%) on conventional deals, which gives you more buying power, and some lenders will only be allowed to qualify you at the higher benchmark rate (4.64) no matter WHAT your down payment, conventional or high ratio.

*slow blink*

I know, it’s a bit much, really.



Conventional Mortgages: if you are qualifying with your NET income, and you have a 20% down payment, you avoid the whopping insurance premium attached to your mortgage. If you are qualifying with your GROSS income, Conventional refers to someone who has a 35% down payment before you avoid the insurance premium.

High Ratio Mortgages: if you are qualifying with your NET income, and you have LESS than a 20% down payment, you will require an insurance premium to be added to your mortgage. If you are qualifying with your GROSS income, then it signals that you have LESS than a 35% down payment, and will also require an insurance premium to be added.


As we currently understand it, with the new rules, if you are a High Ratio file: less than 20%down (using NET income to qualify) or less than 35% down (using GROSS income to qualify) you will have to qualify at the benchmark rate of 4.64 instead of the lower, and more advantageous contract rate of, for example, 2.44% that we used BEFORE MONDAY’s announcement.

Starting on October 17th
, unless you already have a signed commitment in place on a property; no matter the lender, no matter who you are, no matter how many chocolate chip cookies you try to bribe me with (and you can TRY!) the days of qualifying at the contract rate for a fixed, high ratio mortgage are gone.

The end.

If High Ratio sounds like your situation: save more, deduct less, get a co-signer, change your budget, change your desired location, and repeat. Or talk to me.



Let’s say you DO have a
Conventional file; you have 20% down, qualifying with your NET income; or 35% down, qualifying with your GROSS income - good for you!!! But, there is something about that property (maybe a small bachelor condo with only 400 sq. feet) or something about your file personally (a gift, low credit score, changed jobs, changed industries) that, overall, will only be accepted by lender X.

lender X happens to be a mono - lender, your slam dunk down payment could be moot, and you will have to qualify at a higher benchmark rate (4.64%) eliminating your previous qualifying power at the lower contract rate, not because you don’t have enough cash, but because the lender is being held to a different standard than one of the other lenders, and passes that limitation along to you. Plot twist 101.

Well, then, why don’t I choose one of the BIG BANKS in my broker channel if they have been granted more flexible rules? 
Because the BIG BANKS might not accept the self-employed, or gifts, or you need a minimum square footage, or you need to personally guarantee that Donald Trump won’t win the American election. There are SO many boxes that need to be checked off for all lenders, I can’t just say, “let’s put you with THIS lender” because THAT lender might have a condition that you simply can’t meet. It’s a little like snakes and ladders: move ahead 5, go up the ladder, roll again, and you’re sliding back to the start. GAH!

*insert going to the fridge to see if there’s any pumpkin pie
left over from Thanksgiving*

I hope the pie helped because there’s a more detailed cause and effect summary
via First National.

My storytelling scenario (before your eyes glaze over and you unfollow me on Twitter and Facebook) touches on the more obvious, basic implications for the average Canadian (artist) home buyer.

If you fall into the other categories
(foreign buyer, rentals vs. owner occupied, capital gains tax implications, low ratio mortgage insurance, refinancing, 30-year amortisations...) we may need more than a meeting in a coffee shop to get us through the rules.

Thanks for reading...and sharing...and tweeting!

note: all opinions expressed on this blog are
my own entirely, and do not express the opinions or
views of Mortgage Brokers City.

This blog is intended to educate via the entertainment forum of a blog.
For your own, unique financial situation, contact me directly.

September 04, 2016

Bossy banter: 101

SEP 04, 2016

“Oh’re going to write about us in your blog, aren’t you?”

As a matter of fact, I am!

But, fear not, awesome artist, it won’t really be about you, it’ll be about MEEEEEEEEE and the inevitable bossy banter clients can expect to hear, regardless of who they are, where they’ve come from, or where they’re going. Because while everyone’s situation is unique, and every file takes on its own personality, there are some things that you can ALL count on me asking, telling, or insisting upon when we get the mortgage ball rolling.

(See? Bossy).

To lighten the mortgage mood -
apparently I can be edgy in my delivery, *sigh* - remember to read this with
Tina Fey’s voice as Sarah Palin in mind because that’s how it sounds in my head. You’re welcome. : D

• HOW MUCH MONEY DO YOU HAVE? Please know your numbers (Income, Down payment) to the penny. $50,000 sounds great, but if in actual fact it’s only $46,500, that missing $3500 at the last second can make or break your qualifying power. Don’t fret, I’ll point you in the right direction.

• WHERE IS YOUR MONEY? Is it CASH, RRSPs, TFSAs, a GIFT, an INHERITANCE etc.? Is it in your name? Everything needs an explanation, on paper, and not all forms of money are alike. Best not to assume that you are allowed to use your RRSPs or a GIFT, you might learn too late that you’re out of luck. As well, avoid focussing on money you hope to make in the future. An exact breakdown of where your money is at right NOW will be the best way to help me help you.

• DON’T MOVE YOUR MONEY AROUND - Initially I wrote a long paragraph about why I don’t want you to move your money around (DOWN PAYMENT, RRSPs, GIFTS, INVESTMENTS etc.) until I give you the green light, but it’s that important, I’m going for the less is more approach and just sticking with: Don’t move your money around. xox, Me

HOW MUCH CAN YOU AFFORD? This is a tricky one at the very start of our conversation. I don’t expect you to know the first thing about mortgages but you’ll feel much more in charge if you have calculated how much you can afford for rent (mortgage +property taxes) and we can take it from there. I’ve been exactly where you are right now and will never encourage you to spend more than you can afford. Ask any of my clients. I’m a fiercely protective (and a bit scary) when it comes to your money.

DON’T GO HOUSE HUNTING, YET. Until I have all of the details of your finances, and we have decided upon your absolute maximum budget, don’t employ a real estate agent to go house hunting. I know, that ruins all of the fun (my job: party pooper extraordinaire) but your real estate agent will work 10x harder for you if you know your budget to the penny and are in a position to bid immediately. You’ll be happier, too. Also, it’s a courtesy to the real estate agent. They don’t get paid unless you are in a position to buy. That simple consideration will generate the good real estate karma that you really, really, really want.

DON’T LIST, IF IT DOESN’T EXIST. As artists, we live in the world of pending contracts, future gigs, and a lot of ifs and maybes. Unfortunately, unless you’re salaried, there are no future projections allowed on your file. All I can use to qualify you is what you have earned in the PAST two years, not the money that might be on the horizon. Pretty frustrating, right? But you know as well as I do how quickly a gig or contract can vanish for any number of reasons. Take it from me, you don’t want a mortgage based on the income you have yet to earn....amen.

HOW MUCH DEBT DO YOU HAVE? Nobody likes to talk about debt, but it is a necessary evil to a successful mortgage approval if you give me all the facts up front...psssst... it’ll show up on your credit bureau, regardless. No judgement, gang. I’m here to help. Full transparency is the best way to get you on the right path.

DO NOT TAKE ON NEW DEBT. If you are about to apply for a mortgage, please, PLEASE do not take on new debt during our qualifying process. Your new car, line of credit, or credit card will not help you. NOOOOOOOOO. First, your credit gets pulled (and lowered), and all the mortgage lender will see is the perfect reason not to give you money.

A PRE-APPROVAL IS NOT AN APPROVAL. Ok...*pause*... Go back and read that one over again: A pre-approval is NOT an approval. It is a RATE HOLD. That’s it. It holds the rate for you if, in fact, you are approved within the next 120 days at that particular lender. It is based on information that I put into the system, not info that I prove. It’s when we submit for an approval on a live deal (the house you just bid on) that we will have to PROVE everything. I’ll stop there because this particular topic could be a blog unto itself. Just don’t get too comfy with that piece of paper. It’s only the beginning....

PUT A 5 BUSINESS DAY FINANCING CLAUSE IN YOUR OFFER. This is a tricky one, especially in Toronto or Vancouver, because often it is a restriction the seller doesn’t want to deal with in a hot market. But, you take on a lot of risk (your deposit, namely) when you give up the time to prove your conditions (taxes, income, down payment, etc...). It’s up to you. I’ve only felt comfortable with one client waiving their conditions because they were salaried, had a LOT of cash for their down payment, and nothing unusual about their file. Even then, it was a risk, and I cannot legally guarantee anything. Self-employed folks, I’ll wrestle you to the ground if you try to sign off your 5-day financing clause before I give you the green light. (Yep, still bossy.)

I think that’s enough of my bossy banter, but you have to admit,
it’s much better using Tina Fey’s voice in your head. There’s more, MUCH more to discuss, and I’m sure my clients would even say,

“You forgot one.”

Ha! I probably did. I’m bossy, not perfect! : )

Thanks for reading, gang!

note: all opinions expressed on this blog are
my own entirely, and do not express the opinions or
views of Mortgage Brokers City.

June 20, 2016

Confidence and compassion: Teaching kids about money

JUNE 20, 2016

If you had asked me where money came from when I was five years old I probably would have said, “It comes from cheques.”I knew what cheques were. I saw that when you wrote one you received things in return. I had a bank account. I had a piggy bank. What I didn’t have was a conversation, an allowance, or anything consistent or concrete that taught me anything GOOD about money...other than the fact that it was GOOD to have it.

I don’t know whether it was a generational or gender issue in my house, I suspect it was a bit of both, but the overall vibe was that money was something that happened TO YOU, like a fairly tale or tragedy, not something that you DID, MANAGED, SAVED, CONTROLLED or to which you would pay the least bit of ATTENTION.

By the time I was 8 or 9, wandering down to the ATM on a Saturday to get cash for my mom (yep, I did) I quickly saw the correlation between my mother’s mood and the remaining balance, which was always too low, and a surprise, EVERY - SINGLE - TIME.

My mom was a well-educated, well-paid spender whose financial plan was based on HOPE. Hoping that she still had some room on the overdraft. Hoping that a cheque hadn’t gone through so this face to face purchase would not go awry. In her defense, she did the only thing that she knew how to do. That’s all parents can do, I think. I see that now, at least. That was how she functioned, and that was how (more or less) I learned about money as a kid.

I have thought about many ways to address talking to kids about money but, as I’m not a parent, WHO AM I to give advice? I have no idea how parents manage to do all that they do on any given day, let alone talk to their kids about money. Being a former nanny, I know that success in a day with a toddler can sometimes only be measured by how many healthy things you were able to sneak into a smoothie because they won’t eat anything else!!!! (*exhale....5...4...3...2...1....)

So, instead of trying to come up with a master plan, I’m sharing this brief post that showed up on FaceBook from Humans of New York. It sums up what, in my mind, will instill the basic money tools that kids need to learn before anxiety ridden emotions, and real, adulthood consequences attach themselves to the almighty dollar.

“Every week I get one dollar for allowance. Then I get to choose the section where I put my dollar. There are four sections: spend, save, donate, and invest. If I put a dollar in the ‘invest section,' my parents give me two extra pennies at the end of every month. I’ve only used my 'spend section' twice! I have way over $10 in my 'invest section.' I used to have more but I took some money out and put it in my 'donate section.' We used to it to buy food for people who don’t have much money in their 'spend section.'”

That’s it.One paragraph (from the voice of a child) that can turn financial confidence and compassion into a habit. Genius.

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Thank you for reading!

June 09, 2016

Mademoiselle Holt Renfrew, meet Diva of the Depot

JUNE 9, 2016

I have made it no secret that the majority of my weekends as a child were spent happily lunching & shopping with my mom and grandmother in the buzzing metropolis of Winnipeg. First stop was the 
EATON’S dining room for lunch, then we’d wander over to Holt Renfrew to visit the “family”, next up Birks, Marks & Spencer (mmmm... the salt and vinegar crisps effectively removed the roof of my mouth), and a final drop in at The Bay before our chauffeur (the bus) took us home.

I grew up as a city girl who knew more about jewellery and fine clothing than your average 7-year-old, so it never ceases to amaze me how buying a house has turned my 
“Holt Renfrew Tendencies” into “Home Depot Domination.”

Growing up, I don’t recall anyone in my household doing repairs or touch ups in the house...well...unless you include the pink surgical tape holding up the subway tiles in the corner of our shower. It was not done, taught, or expected. What I know of my grandfather, a well-dressed officer turned businessman, he wasn’t doing the repairs either and was happy to pay a professional to get the work done.

These days, my weekends usually include some form of improvement around our fixer upper. Thanks to TV, magazines, and let’s face it, Martha Stewart, I am less and less intimidated by projects around the house, and I have the pink, steel toed boots to prove it.

(yes, my tool “kit” is a shower caddy - don’t judge)

Now, would I be a home reno diva if I didn’t have a handy dandy hubby?

Probably not...or at least not as much.

But, by being a home owner (sorry, let me rephrase that: Being the payor of a mortgage) you quickly realise that learning how to do “stuff” might not be such a bad idea.We’ve done the math and if we had paid my husband and his team to do all of the labour in our home (not including materials) we would be in the high $$, $$$ range.

My point?
(this is why I suck at talk talk...)

You’re never too old - or too fancy - to become a Depot Diva or Divo:

Renovation + Garden shows
YouTube “how to” videos
Friends, Neighbours, and relatives

There are endless FREE ways to learn a new skill that you never imagined for yourself and, if I can do it, you can do it too! I’m not saying you should learn how to do it ALL (ie: electrical, plumbing or gas work) but, if you can learn how to do one thing really well, just ONE THING, you’ll feel like a million bucks every time you look at your miraculous handy work. Your wallet will feel a lot better too.

Thanks for reading!

March 15, 2016

Swearing like a trucker: A 1st world problem

MARCH 15, 2016

Today’s blog is not one that I am fond of, mainly because my husband and I are the lead characters, and because the ending was NOT what we wanted, though ultimately our choice. I reminded myself that The Cardinal’s Nest is not a platform for fairytales, I don’t write to be popular, or to claim I have all of the answers. I write to learn, evolve and hopefully help a few people (all 85 of my faithful readers) along the way, myself included. So here’s the story of my 1st world problem.

I am 42.
My husband is 50.
We have a 21-year mortgage on which we have 13.5 years left to pay it off.
At that time I will be 55ish, and my husband will be 64ish.

(Knock on wood, fingers crossed, throw salt over your shoulder,
live on a street named after salt.)

Our home value has almost doubled in 7 years by virtue of its detached existence in Toronto.


Well, we do. And depending on your age, and how close you are to retirement as you read this, you might care too.

We want to be able to retire. No, we want to be able to retire comfortably, without worry, so we continue to put everything we can into our home (instead of clothes or gadgets) because, so far, it has been the most reliable and lucrative saving vehicle we have ridden thus far. When an investment property opportunity popped up, we faced it head on.

It was a rental bachelor suite that we (ironically) renovated for a client who is now planning to sell. I asked them to give me a week or two to put an offer together and broker my own deal. They were gracious and on board with our offer if we could make the numbers work. No bidding war. Just a straight up sale. Sweet, right?

The plan was simple:

•get a separate home equity loan for the down payment
•have the renter pay off the new mortgage
•pretend that there won’t be any obstacles in our way
•laugh all the way home to count our retirement money, jiggity jigg!

The NOT so simple parts of the plan:

•for a rental purchase, you need to use your NET income to qualify 

•since we are self-employed we have low NET incomes, mine, in particular, was obstacle #1.

•we already HAVE a property/mortgage

•we needed a minimum 20% down payment for a rental property...possibly 25% depending on the lender

•we needed more cash than that because of the approximate $4000 in closing costs , $6000 refinance penalty at the current lender, 1-2% B lender fees ($2000-$4000) for the new mortgage (because we only *almost* qualified for a B lender with our self-employed GROSS income.

•our current property (however) needs a new roof and driveway and, when I say need, I mean NEED, so the refi was getting bigger and bigger by the second.

•we would have to pay a CMHC insurance premium on the additional funds (around $3000.00) because our original mortgage was insured and a full refi (instead of a line of credit) was the only scenario that brought us in line.


•we were limited by B lenders who might not fund a condo that was shy of 500sq.ft. This is hard enough in A lending because the Toronto market is becoming overwhelmed with mini condos, let alone open space bachelor pads without a separate bedroom. I did it for a client, but our financial scenario was making it difficult for us.

•and then (!!!) we would be left with a NEW30-yearr mortgage, larger than the original one on our first property, that we wouldn’t have paid off until ages 72 and 80.

•after all that, our ratios were still not entirely in line to qualify fully

•due to the higher interest rate of the B lender (4.25%), we would have to charge rent higher than market value which would make it harder to find/keep a tenant.

•our own monthly expenses would increase outside of our comfort zone due to the new, LARGER mortgage on our first property and no room for the unexpected.

•also, if we ever needed to live off of the equity in our current home in a reverse mortgage, a large portion would be eaten up by this new refinanced scenario.

We had all of this equity, but in the end, the numbers said, this is not going to happen today. Our retirement vehicle #2 would have to stay in the showroom for a little bit longer. 


•I’m frustrated that I was not prepared enough for this perfect opportunity.

•I’m frustrated that I have not saved enough for another down payment.

•I’m frustrated that I haven’t (yet) invested in a new retirement vehicle.

•I’m supposed to be f*$king rocking this property thing!!!!!!

But the risks, the list of penalties and costs, our ages, our fluctuating incomes, TWO 30 year amortisations on TWO properties, however, outweighed the gains in this moment.

In other words:

We would not sleep at night with this financial framework swirling around us.

I wanted it to work, and the fact that I was able to convince my husband to keep the conversation going longer than a day was what I thought was the sign from the universe that this was going to happen!



What WOULD have made it work? 

•A CASH down payment.


•Higher NET income (for me)

•Both, either/or.

If we had had that CASH down payment, or if my NET income was higher, we would have narrowly qualified in a way that would create a more manageable scenario. We would not have had to refinance the same way, we would not have incurred fees, we *might* not have had to go to the B side with higher rates, our renter would have paid off everything at market value, AND our current property vehicle would not have been jeopardised. 

Ironically, the money we put into our current house is also why we have so much equity in the first place. There’s a little bit of chicken & egg scenario going on here.

The NEW plan?

•Don’t give up
•DO keep swearing like a trucker about this for a little bit longer

My goal is to write a happier ending in about 3 years, but until then, I encourage my readers to continue to seek out financial success stories and keep ME posted on how YOU plan to get ahead. 

Thanks for reading and sharing!

note: all opinions expressed on this blog are
solely my own and do not express the opinions or
views of Mortgage Brokers City.

January 30, 2016

You're an adult, you'll figure it out

JANUARY 30, 2016

If you’re unlucky, you’ve already heard (a lot) about my computer woes. After a good run, my Mac Book passed the point of any possible updates. Safari laughed in my face, and Chrome was patient but firm, that it could only take me as far as the poppy fields, Dorothy, and then it would be sleepy time. My battery was dying, and I was trying to run a business that relies ALMOST solely on this very expensive rectangle that, apparently, has an expiry date. (Damn it!)

After a good computer clean up, frozen screens, swearing, and a toddler-esque meltdown (me, and the computer) the conclusion was to get a new one instead of investing in an overhaul. (Damn it, AGAIN!)

My gut reaction to these unexpected 
$$$ expenses is always the same:

• panic
• tell everyone about my panic
• research how panicking will get me the best deal
• tell everyone how I (sort of) beat the system (by panicking, clearly) and saved $300
• be funny or sarcastic about giving in to the lure of shiny new things, ignoring the fact that others are worried about where their next meal will come from. (This is me inserting a little perspective.)

I know this is not a big some...but to me, I can’t help but react to ANY financial upheaval, no matter how insignificant to the observer, any other way than the way it was modelled to me as a child. And, I’m not alone. I see it in some of my clients, too; holding their breath, or tearing up, thinking they haven’t done or saved enough, no matter how hard I try to prove the contrary.

This gut reaction stuff is why I started the blog, which helped me start a business (run on empathy), and it’s why it now only takes me 12 hours (instead of days) to wake up and hit the yellow brick road again despite the Wicked Witch of the West’s attempt to paralyze me with financial fear. And when I say wake up, I mean it. At 3:30 in the morning, after going to bed with a hefty new visa balance, my brain did me the favour of making me juuuuuuust conscious enough to be aware of the voice inside my head, saying,

“You’re an adult, you’ll figure it out, you always do.”

The next morning I clicked my heels, headed out to pick up my airy new apple, and came home to emails from two new students (who would pay off my bill in short order). I figured it out instead of feeling bad about:

• debt
• buying shiny new things (that’s another story)
•myself and how I still have the shadow of old, negative financial blueprints written all over me in invisible ink

Gut instincts (or learned reactions), be they financial, emotional, or any other ‘fill in the blank’ category, are what make us unique, but they can also do double duty and make us (me) feel out of place when our (my) reactions to a problem seem out of scale to the situation at hand.

I’m living proof that reactions can change, evolve, and turn into an asset, instead of a hindrance ....well...they can if you’re awake enough at 3:30 in the morning to hear the uncharacteristically logical advice from the voice inside your (my) head.

It might only be a small victory but it’s a victory, nonetheless,

and I’ll take it, thank you very much.

This blog was brought to you in part by my jazzy new gadget (no regrets!!!!), and my VISA card.